That Kind of Love

Ever wanted that kind of love that makes you have premature ventricular contractions (makes your heart skip a beat)

The kind of love that makes your leg shoots up when you get kissed

The kind of love where you spend all day talking and end up falling asleep while you on the phone with each other

The kind of love where even complete and total silence is welcoming cause you are with your love

The kind of love where she pouts and sulks over nothing so that you are coaxed into telling her how you feel

The kind of love where you find everything about the other person cute

You know the snoring when they sleep as you stay up and watch them sleep,

The lil drool that’s left on the pillow when they wake up

That one unruly hair that just won’t stay in place

The kind of love where you check your phone every two minutes to see if they texted or called (even though you can clearly hear the ringtone when they do)

The kind of love where you call at random times to say the most random of things that only makes sense to the two of you

The kind of love where you leave sticky notes all over the place so that wherever they look or go reminds them of how you feel

The kind of love where you get mad and angry over the smallest of things and all it takes is a smile from them and everything just seems alright

The kind of love where everything could be going wrong in your life but you have the love to fall back on and it softens the blows and cradles you into bliss

The kind of love where she comes to you crying, you hold her and ask her, “Whose ass am I kicking?”

The kind of love where you’d walk through the rain to get airtime just to answer a text

The kind of love where just a mere thought of the person puts a smile in your heart

The kind of love where the grass seems greener, the sky looks bluer and even the air tastes sweeter

The kind of love where you miss them before they even leave and you get nervous and anxious right before you see them again

The kind of love where you text them and write lil notes even though they right next to you

Where you still get a bit shy around each other

Giggle for the smallest of things and act like a bunch of three years kids

The kind of love where your poetry is better than Shakespeare’s

Your voice sounds better than Luciano Pavarotti

The kind of love where it’s so enclosed in itself and so vain like when Narcissus first saw his reputation

The kind of love where that has a beauty that would make Aphrodite mad to her core

The kind of love where even when you out with your boys or girls or you clubbing you still texting and talking about them

The kind of love where you show your people those sweet messages that just touch your heart

The kind of love where it’s so intimate that you end up spooning and snuggling with your clothes on and yet it’s so very intense

The kind of love where they are the only one who can get you hot and bothered under the collar

The kind of love where you clueless to all the others trying to get with you cause they just don’t measure up

The kind of love where almost anything and everything reminds you of moments you spent with them

The kind of love where you daydream and fantasize the future

The kind of love where after lil intoxication you profess your feelings to whoever is in earshot

The kind of love where you blow off the boy or girls to spend time with you’re loved on

The kind of love where even when you have plans they seem to evaporate when you have the chance to be with the one you love

The kind of love where you could be in the middle of playing the latest Call of Duty and you would pause the game to text back or in the middle of a shopping spree

The kind of love where you worry when the texts take too long to be answered or when the phone calls isnt answered

The kind of love where you spend all day and night doing nothing and not even feeling hungry just fed by each other’s presence

The kind of love where it like you back to those high school days

You know that kind of love where you tell your friend to tell the person you like how you feel

The love that fills you up completely

I love 'Letters to Juliet'

Dear Claire,

What and If are two words as non-threatening as words can be. But put them together side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life: What if? What if? What if? I don’t know how your story ended but if what you felt then was true love, then it’s never too late. If it was true then, why wouldn’t it be true now? You need only the courage to follow your heart. I don’t know what a love like Juliet’s feels like – love to leave loved ones for, love to cross oceans for but I’d like to believe if I ever were to feel it, that I will have the courage to seize it. And, Claire, if you didn’t, I hope one day that you will.

All my love, Juliet

(I love this letter. Even though it's for a stranger, Sophie put all her heart writing this one. So sweet and sincere of her )

You should date a girl who reads.

You should date a girl who reads.

Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes, who has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.

Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she has found the book she wants. You see that weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a secondhand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow and worn.

She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.

Buy her another cup of coffee.

Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.

It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas, for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry and in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.

She has to give it a shot somehow.

Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.

Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who read understand that all things must come to end, but that you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.

Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.

If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.

You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.

You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.

Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.

Or better yet, date a girl who writes.

- Rosemarie Urquico

(In Response to Charles Warnke’s You Should Date An Illiterate Girl.)

Playing with the Android app - PhotoWonder

Im playing with my phone and came up with this...a heavily edited picture of me...lol  

I know Im not that pretty but hahaha...here I am posting a photo of myself

I really love purikura you see...it's a Japanese Photo booth where you could edit and add frames and other effects, texts, and decorations

I look like an alien ne?  

How to Know If A Guy Likes You

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
   • He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
   • His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
5. Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
6. Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
7. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
8. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls – the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
    • If he wants to talk to you all the time,
    • If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him,
    • If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
    • If he treats you differently to other girls,
    • If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
    • If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
    • If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
    • If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you,
    • If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
    • If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
    • If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
    • If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
    • If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
    • If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
    • If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
    • If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
    • If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
    • If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing,
    • If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
    • If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around
    • If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.

99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS THAT GIRLS SHOULD KNOW!!

99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS THAT GIRLS SHOULD KNOW!!

1. guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate other flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5.Are you doing something?” or “otherwise?” are the first usual questionsa guy asks on the phone just

 to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about

 the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so

12.Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have onehabit to gain courage

 and spirit to tell you many things and it isdrinking! but do not generalise

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to

 accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18.Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!”would make 

him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you arethinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – watever.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21.When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’reasking him to do you a favor,

 he’s actually saying that he doesn’t likeyou and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. ……so true.

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate gays!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37.Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about hisproblems with you may

 end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. 

You don’t need to give advice…….very true.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50.It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke upespecially when they’ve

 been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, 

never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53.When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more

than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..

sumtimes depends wen they want sumat.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying,

 “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes.

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63.Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, butcourt the girls anyway and then

 realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her 

romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready

 2be settled down.

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and

 he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you.

87.When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance,give it to him. 

But when you catch him again and he asks for anotherchance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89.If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at youand it obviously shows 

that he is jealous whenever you’re with yourboyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend

 loves you more thanyour boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and

 take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93.When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even justfor one night, 

hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He onlyflatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sumtimes.

99. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships

I found this one relative to my life

Don't drown yourself by falling in 

LOVE